How to Pick the Perfect First Dance Song (and How to Nail the Moves!)

Your first dance is one of the most magical moments of your wedding day—just you and your partner, lost in the music, surrounded by love. But before you get to that dreamy moment, you need to pick a song and figure out how to make it look effortless (without stepping on each other’s toes!)

Don’t worry, we’ve got you covered! Here’s how to choose a first dance song that feels like “you” and how to practice so you’re dance-floor-ready when the big moment arrives.

Step 1: Finding the Perfect First Dance Song 🎶

1. Choose a Song That Feels Personal

The best first dance songs aren’t just romantic—they mean something to you. Think about:

• The first song you ever danced to together 💃🕺

• A song that reminds you of your love story

• A track that makes you both smile (or tear up!)

  
  

It doesn’t have to be a classic slow ballad—it can be upbeat, alternative, acoustic, or even a mashup of songs that tell your story.

2. Think About Your Dancing Style

Are you dreaming of a classic slow sway, a fun twirl-filled routine, or something totally unique? Your song should match the energy you want. For example:

• Slow and romantic: “Perfect” – Ed Sheeran

• Upbeat & fun: “Crazy Little Thing Called Love” – Queen

• A little unexpected: “Beyond” – Leon Bridges

• Timeless and classic: “Everything I Do, I Do It for You” – Bryan Adams

3. Check the Lyrics!

Not all love songs are actually about… well, happily ever after. Double-check the lyrics to make sure they match the vibe of your wedding and relationship. (You’d be surprised how many “romantic” songs are actually about breakups! 🙃)

4. Consider the Song Length

Most first dance songs are around 3–4 minutes long, but if that feels too long, you can always ask your DJ or band to shorten it. Trust us, being on the dance floor for 5+ minutes can feel way longer than it sounds!

5. Get a Second Opinion

If you’re stuck, ask a friend, family member, or your wedding videographer for ideas! We’ve seen tons of incredible first dance moments, so we can help guide you toward a song that fits your style and will look amazing in your wedding film.

Step 2: How to Practice Your First Dance (Without Stressing!) 💃🕺

Once you've picked your song, it’s time to get comfortable with it!

1. Decide on Your Dance Style

Do you want to go full ballroom elegance or keep it simple and natural? If you love dancing, go for a choreographed routine. If not, a relaxed slow sway with a few twirls is just as beautiful.

2. Take a Few Dance Lessons

Even one or two lessons with a dance instructor can make a world of difference! They can help with:

✔ Basic steps to keep you moving smoothly

✔ Fun spins or dips to add a little wow factor

✔ Building confidence so you don’t feel awkward

(And if lessons aren’t your thing, there are tons of YouTube tutorials to help you out!)

3. Practice in the Right Shoes

If you’re wearing heels, flats, or even barefoot, practice in the shoes you’ll be wearing on the day. Grooms—break in your dress shoes so you don’t slip!

4. Try It in Your Wedding Attire

Your wedding outfits might feel different than your everyday clothes! Brides, test your dress to see if you can move freely (especially if you have a long train or a fitted gown). If needed, have your seamstress add a bustle to make dancing easier.

5. Pick Your Dance Floor Spot

Will you be dancing on a wooden floor, grass, or a dance stage? Some surfaces can be slippery or uneven, so do a test run if possible.

6. Keep It Simple & Have Fun

The best first dances aren’t the most choreographed—they’re the ones where the couple is genuinely having fun! If you mess up, laugh it off and keep going. Your guests will love the moment, no matter what.

Step 3: Make Sure It Looks Amazing on Video! 🎥

Your first dance is a once-in-a-lifetime moment, so make sure it’s beautifully captured. At CloudHigh Weddings, we love filming first dances that feel authentic, romantic, and full of joy.

We capture the smiles, twirls, and even the little whispers between you. And if you have a special first dance surprise, we’ll make sure it’s documented perfectly so you can relive it again and again. Maybe just give us the heads up beforehand.

Final Thoughts

Your first dance isn’t just about looking good—it’s about celebrating your love in a way that feels uniquely you. So choose a song that speaks to your heart, practice just enough to feel comfortable, and when the moment comes… just dance and enjoy it! 🎶💕

💌 Want a first dance video that looks straight out of a movie? Let’s chat!